Remembering Grandpa

Funeral flowers placed on the grave of Charles George Hibbitt

Funeral flowers placed on the grave of Charles George Hibbitt after his Burial

8TH OCTOBER

On this day in 1972, my Grandpa, Charles George Hibbitt, died aged 73, at South Hams Hospital in Kingsbridge, Devon.

I remember that day when I waved him off in Greenbank Hospital in Plymouth. Although I was only nine years old, I had a sixth sense that it was the last time I would see my Gramps. There he stood in his red dressing gown with a rope-type belt tied tightly in the middle of his emaciated frame. He was dying of lung cancer and it wasn’t too long before he succumbed to his illness.

I woke up on Sunday morning, the 8th October 1972, to find mum downstairs in the lounge. She told me that dad had set off in the car as there had been a phone call earlier to say that Grandpa didn’t have long. He had previously been moved from the hospital in Plymouth to the one in Kingsbridge, some four and a half miles from where my grandparents lived. In the time it took for my dad to get to the hospital, it was too late, he had missed him by a few minutes. I still have the goodbye note which Grandpa had left for my dad and the rest of our family. I presume Gran had one too but I don’t know for sure.

The funeral took place on the 12th in the Church at East Allington but, as was often the case with children in those days, I had no idea it was happening. I was probably at school and I wasn’t told anything about it. Grandpa was buried in his sister’s grave at Drake Memorial Park and above is a photograph of the flowers which were laid on the grave afterwards. I drive past this cemetery when I visit my parents and I still pay my respects at the grave from time to time.

Grandpa's Grave photographed in June 2025

Update: Grandpa’s Grave photographed in June 2025

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My Granny Hibbitt – Photos, Cine And Video Footage

1ST SEPTEMBER

On this, my Granny Hibbitt’s birthday (born Ivy Alice Dando: 1904-1992), here are some photographs, cine and video footage to remember her by.

Known as Isey, she was born above her grandmother’s sweet shop known as the Golden Butterfly in Saffron Walden in Essex. Her father was a dentist and, by 1910, the family had moved to Plymouth in Devon.

Isey was employed in the telephone exchange where presumably she met my Grandpa who also worked for the G.P.O. (General Post Office). Much of their married life was spent in Tavistock during which time she worked for a solicitor’s firm in Plymouth. They retired to East Allington in the South Hams area of Devon and Isey outlived her husband by 20 years.

Isey’s hobbies included making wine and collecting shells on the nearby Devon beaches. She then attached them to terracotta pots using Polyfilla or sometimes she used tiny square tiles and she’d let me have a go too. I remember her as kind and diplomatic with a vivacious personality and a lively sense of humour.

This video can also be viewed on my YouTube channel at
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cuyq3LZ4j-E
and in my website video gallery at
https://www.hibbitt.org.uk/gallery/videos/video-album/0036-granny-hibbitt/

Music: Cheezy Piano Medley by Alexander Nakarada
Music promoted by https://www.free-stock-music.com
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On This Day In 1869 And 1959

2ND AUGUST

I have only just realized that one of my dad’s grandfathers was born on this day, 2nd August, and the other died on this day.

1869Alfred Charles Newbold Hibbitt was born on 2nd August 1869 at Back 20, Chester Street, Birmingham, Warwickshire. He joined the Royal Navy in 1885 and went on to become a Chief Petty Officer in the Coastguards. He was invalided out in 1920 and died in 1928.

Alfred Charles Newbold Hibbitt with his daughter, Nellie

Alfred Charles Newbold Hibbitt with his daughter, Nellie

1959 – Charles Llewellyn Ernest Elbert Dando died on 2nd August 1959 at Moorhaven Hospital, Ugborough, Totnes, Devon. His death certificate shows he died of pulmonary oedema and pneumonia, left heart failure, anaemia and carcinoma of the prostate. He was born at 86 Regent Street, London, on 4th June 1876 and worked as a dentist for half a century.

Charles Llewellyn Ernest Elbert Dando with his wife, Alice, at Goodrington

Charles Llewellyn Ernest Elbert Dando with his wife, Alice, at Goodrington

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Drunken Louisa Confronts Her Husband In The Street

I’ve recently undertaken quite a lot of work on the family of my 2 x great-grandparents, John Gale Hellier and Mary Ann Congdon including adding detailed notes for my great-grandmother, Sarah May Hellyer. Several of John and Mary Ann’s children died in infancy including both twins. The youngest son, John, died at the age of nine, most probably of polio. The youngest daughter, Jane, died in the 1918 flu epidemic at the age of 29. All of the children were below the age of 18 by the time they were orphaned which meant that many of them were separated from each other, being sent to live in orphanages or with relatives.

Mary Ann Congdon had long been a mystery to me but I have finally made some progress on her family line which has also been verified by DNA. I wasn’t sure whether her name was Congdon or Burgoyne but it turns out that William Burgoyne was her stepfather. Her parents were James Condon and Louisa Reed. Very little is known about James but he probably died before Mary Ann was 4 years old.

Her mother, Louisa, went on to marry William George Henry Burgoyne in 1857 but it seems the marriage was not a happy one according to a court case in 1883 where Louisa was accused of repeatedly assaulting her husband and of being a drunk. On this particular occasion she collared her husband in the street on his way to work as a fireman in a mill. She shook her fist at him and used bad language. Apparently William “had lived a dreadful life with her for many years” so it’s not surprising the couple separated.

AI Generated image depicting a drunk and angry Louisa confronting her husband

AI Generated image depicting a drunk and angry Louisa confronting her husband

Louisa Reed’s parents were George Reed and Bridget Ellis although, for some unknown reason, Bridget also went by the name of Catherine or Kate. Bridget’s father was John and it’s believed she was from Cork in Ireland but she subsequently moved to Plymouth in Devon where she married her second husband.

You will find detailed footnotes for the Reed and Ellis families on their particular family web pages, including newspaper articles outlining the dispute between Louisa Reed and her husband, William Burgoyne.

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Appointment At The Palace

15TH JULY

Exactly one hundred years ago today a special communication was received by a young Lt Cyril Norman Ellen requesting his presence at Buckingham Palace on the 24th July 1919. The phonogram was sent from the Lord Chamberlain’s office to Harvey’s grandad who was to receive his DFC (Distinguished Flying Cross) from King George V. It must have been a very proud moment.

Original phonogram sent on 15th July 1919 to Lt C N Ellen

Original phonogram sent on 15th July 1919 to Lt C N Ellen

R.A.F. PHONOGRAM.

F.S. Form 380
NOT TO BE FILLED IN BY SENDER.
Date15/7/19           Time.
No. 8                     Time Recd. 11:50
By A C

To Lieut. Cyril Ellen
R.A.F. Station Cranwell

Your attendance is required at Buckingham Palace on Thursday 24th inst. at 10:15 o’clock a.m.

Service dress. Please telegraph acknowledgment

Lord Chamberlain
Buckingham Palace
London

There were 1045 Distinguished Flying Crosses issued for WW1.

Cyril Ellen wearing his medals on his wedding day in 1925

Cyril Ellen wearing his medals on his wedding day in 1925.
The DFC is on the left.

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