A Glimpse into Polperro’s Past

Polperro, Cornwall - Old Photo

Polperro, Cornwall – Old Photo. (Click to enlarge)

From my grandpa’s collection of old slides comes this charming snapshot of Polperro, a small fishing village on the south coast of Cornwall, likely taken in the 1950s or 60s.

The photo captures a moment on the quay, where people are strolling along the harbour, past the old inns and tea rooms, with a sign for the museum. The bright summer skirts and dresses and neat jackets capture a slower, more graceful pace of life, and the warm sunlight makes Polperro look timeless.

This picture isn’t just a photograph; it’s a window into a bygone era, preserving a single moment in the life of this quaint Cornish village. I wonder what brought these people there on that particular day.

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Pain and Legacy – 156 Years Since Robert Weaver’s Passing

5TH AUGUST

Today, 5th August, marks the 156th anniversary of the death of Robert Weaver, a boot and shoemaker of Curry Rivel, Somerset, just one day short of his 80th birthday. Robert was my 4 x great-grandfather and he is buried with his wife in St Andrew’s Churchyard in the heart of the village.

Robert and Sarah Weaver's Headstone

Robert and Sarah Weaver’s Headstone

Robert’s final wishes, penned on 28th January 1865, laid out a clear plan for his estate. He appointed his wife, Sarah Weaver (née Street), and a local currier named George Crease as his executors. A currier was a craftsman who prepared and finished tanned leather. This process, known as ‘currying’, prepared the leather for use by other trades, such as shoemakers and saddlers. It’s very probable that Robert would have relied on a currier like George for his raw materials, or at least had frequent dealings with him. This business relationship could explain why Robert chose George Crease to be one of his executors and a trustee of his will.

Robert left all of his household goods, furniture, business stock, and personal effects to his wife for her “absolute benefit”. More significantly, Robert instructed George Crease to hold in trust the family’s property, including houses, gardens and an arable plot called Croftland. Sarah was to receive the rents and profits from this real estate during her lifetime. It was after Sarah’s passing that the real estate was to be sold, with the proceeds carefully divided.

Robert had several specific legacies in mind. His son, Henry Weaver, was assigned £19 19s in monthly payments of ten shillings, a sum that many in the 1860s would recognize as strategically chosen to avoid a higher probate tax. This clause may have been influenced by Henry’s reputation – he’d had frequent brushes with the law throughout his life. Spreading the payments across months perhaps reflected concern for financial stability or accountability. The will outlined that if Henry died before receiving the full amount, the remaining balance would be divided among Robert’s surviving children.

Robert’s daughter, Ann Willshire, was to receive a legacy of £10 for her sole and separate use and if she was to die before Sarah, the legacy would pass equally to her surviving children. The remainder of the money was to be divided equally among Robert’s other children and one granddaughter; Jane Payne (wife of John Payne), James Weaver, Elizabeth Wheller (wife of George Wheller), Amelia Weaver and Emley [sic] Weaver (daughter of Robert’s son, Alfred). There was a protective clause ensuring that the daughters’ inheritances remained theirs alone, shielded from marital debts or entanglements. A debt from Alfred would be deducted from Emily’s share.

Perhaps the most fascinating detail of this historical document comes from the probate process itself. George Crease, in his sworn oath, revealed that when Robert signed his will, he was suffering from a severe case of “acute Rheumatism in his hands and arms”. His initial attempt to sign his surname was unintelligible so he had to write it again directly underneath his Christian name. George testified that Robert fully understood the will’s contents, which had been read aloud prior to signing. The will was witnessed by Henry Hartnell and Joseph Billing and was eventually proved a few months after Robert’s death on 22nd November.

Robert Weaver's signature as recorded on his Will written in 1865

A copy of the will’s signature, demonstrating the
severe rheumatism Robert Weaver suffered in 1865

Robert Weaver wasn’t wealthy and his estate was modest by any measure, noted as being under £100. Nevertheless, within these documents lies the character of a man who thought ahead. He worked with what he had, arranged fair and specific legacies and sought to shield his loved ones from hardship.

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A Bride at Seventeen: Marking Ruby Dando’s 140th Birthday

3rd AUGUST

My great-grandfather’s half-sister, Ruby Kate Irene Dando, was born in America on 3rd August 1885 – exactly 140 years ago today. In 1902, Leigh in Essex witnessed her marriage to the Reverend Robert Stuart King, beloved rector of St. Clement’s Church. She was only just seventeen years old and he was forty. The wedding was a notable local event, drawing a large and joyful crowd of parishioners, friends, and family to celebrate this much-admired couple.

Details of their wedding were published in ‘The Gentlewoman’ (transcribed below), which was a British weekly newspaper, published between 1890 and 1926, aimed at a female audience. I imagine their photographs would have been stunning, whereas sadly, I only have access to a digitized copy available on the FindMyPast website.

Ruby Dando & Robert Stuart King

Saturday 23 August 1902 – The Gentlewoman

The Rev. R. S. King to Miss R. Dando.

A wedding of much interest at Leigh, in Essex, on August 12th, was that of the rector, the Rev. Robert Stuart King, son of the late Canon Walker King, to Miss Ruby Elberta Kate Irene Dando, eldest daughter of Mr. W. Elbert Dando, of Baltimore, U.S.A., resident at Leigh for the past seven years. The bridegroom’s father was rector of Leigh for thirty years, and the bridegroom has himself occupied that position for ten, so that St. Clement’s Church was filled to overflowing with guests, and the road and approaches were lined with the bridegroom’s parishioners. The church was charmingly decorated, and the service was fully choral. The Rt. Rev. the Lord Bishop of Lincoln (uncle of the bridegroom) officiated, and afterwards gave an eloquent address, and assisting him were the Rev. H. S. Nicholl, rector of Llandough, the Rev. T. O. Reay, and the Rev. A. B. Bennett. The bride, who was given away by her father, was attended by four bridesmaids—Miss Pearl Dando, Miss Dolly Burgess Smith, Miss Joyce Savage, and Miss Irene Hall—and by two pages—Master Jeffrey King (nephew of the bridegroom) and Master Harold Hall. The bride’s dress was of ivory crêpe de chine over white silk passementerie and orange blossom and she wore a veil of Brussels lace which once belonged to the bridegroom’s mother. The bridesmaids’ gowns were of white pin spot muslin, with white crinoline hats with chiffon and black velvet ribbon, and the two pages wore Court suits of black velvet. Mr. T. E. Stuart supported his cousin as best man, and the bridegroom’s presents to the bridesmaids were bouquets of crimson carnations and brooches of sapphires and pearls, with watchchains to the pages. At the conclusion of the service Mendelssohn’s Wedding March was played and the bells were rung, while a number of schoolchildren strewed flowers in the path of the bride as she walked with her husband to Ivy Cottage, lent by Mr. and Mrs. Harvey Moore for the reception. The guests present included the Rev. H. Stuart King, Capt. Walker King, Mrs. Kirton, the Rev. G. G. and Mrs. Kemp, the Rev. W. Davis and Mrs. Davis, the Rev. H. T. and Mrs. Spencer, Mr. and Mrs. Coulson Kernahan, the Rev. Dr. Lang and Mrs. Lang, the Rev. F. R. and Mrs. Burnside, Mr. and Mrs. Rankin, Mr. and Mrs. E. Sheriff, Miss Colman, Mr. and Mrs. Myers, Mr. and Mrs. C. Stuart King, Miss Pask and Lieut. Pask, Dr. and Mrs. Vernon, and many others too numerous to enumerate. The honeymoon is to be spent in Switzerland and at the Italian lakes, and the Rev. R. S. and Mrs. King left en route early in the afternoon, the bride travelling in a pale blue cloth dress with white lace and silver buttons. The wedding presents, which were numerous and interesting, included a sapphire and pearl bracelet, from the bridegroom to the bride; silver-backed hair brushes, from the bride to the bridegroom; a half-hoop diamond ring, from Mr. and Mrs. W. Elbert Dando; a silver-mounted umbrella, from Miss Pearl Dando; silver pin boxes, from Mr. Malcolm Dando; a silver tureen and a cheque, from Captain Walker King; silver entrée dishes, from Mrs. Rodd; silver-mounted salad bowl and servers, from Miss King, Mrs. Kirton, and Mr. E. H. S. King; a cheque, from the Bishop of Lincoln; a set of silver spoons and forks, from Mr. and Mrs. Charles King; a ruby ring, from Miss E. Stuart King; an ebony and brass lamp and shade, from Miss Pask and Mrs. Herbert Higgins; a silver butter knife from the Highfield School pupils; and a silver tea and coffee service with a silver-mounted tray, from the parishioners of Leigh. The wedding cake was supplied by Messrs. W. and G. Buszard.

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A Tangled Legacy: The Will Of Emma Dando

In 1869, a legal dispute unfolded over the will of Emma Dando, who had died the previous year on 14th June 1868. The case, heard in the probate court, revolved around multiple wills and competing family interests.

Emma was the daughter of my 4 x great-grandparents, Joseph Dando, the Elder, and his wife Ann, née Murch. She lived at Pembroke House, 7 Brunswick Square, Bristol, with her sister, Frances Eleanor Dando, and in 1863, they made mutual wills in which they left their estates to each other.

Pembroke House, 7 Brunswick Square, Bristol

Pembroke House, 7 Brunswick Square, Bristol, stands on the corner of Pembroke Street and
Brunswick Square and was the home of Emma and Frances Eleanor Dando

Some time afterwards, both sisters wished to revoke their mutual wills and, on 28th July 1864, Emma created a new will, prepared by her solicitor, Mr. Livett. This 1864 will significantly altered the terms, giving Frances only a life interest in her property, rather than outright ownership.

The following provisions were made in Emma’s 1864 will…

Frances Eleanor Dando’s Life Interests

Emma left her ten houses in St. Philip and Jacob Parish, Bristol, and her other freehold estate there, in trust, with the rents going to her sister Frances Eleanor Dando for life. After Frances’ death, this specific property would go to their brother Charles Tidmarsh Dando absolutely. Furthermore, the income from the main bulk of Emma’s residuary (remaining) real and personal estate was also to be paid to Frances for her lifetime.

Specific Legacies after Frances’ Death

Once Frances passed away, the capital from this main residuary fund would then be distributed. This included £1,000 to her sister Louisa Metcalfe and £500 to her sister Harriet Feaston for their separate use, free from their husbands’ control. There was £500 to her friend, Ann Nunneley, (who was then residing with Emma and later married her brother, Charles) and small amounts to her coachman, servants and a person called Mary Tuckett. Emma also set aside funds for her nieces, Eliza Ann Carver and Josephine Carver (daughters of her sister Anne Carver), providing them with an income for life from the amount of £500 each, free from any husband’s control. Their brother, Henry Dando Carver’s, daughters would inherit the capital after the death of Eliza Ann and Josephine but, if there were no daughters, Henry would inherit the capital. Her nephew, Henry Bayard Dando (son of her brother Joseph Dando), would receive the income from £500 until he turned 21, at which point he’d receive the capital. She gave £50 to the Minister of the Tabernacle in Bristol (or to his wife if he predeceased her) and the sum of £19 19 0 to the Secretary of the Tract Society London (or to his wife if he predeceased her). Also, George Thomas, the accountant and trustee, received £100 for his services, recognising the burdens of the role.

Forgiveness of Debt

Emma also formally forgave her sister, Anne Carver, for a share of certain payments and liabilities, up to the amount of £500.

Remainder of Residuary Estate

Louisa Kate Dando (daughter of her brother Joseph Dando), was Emma’s ‘adopted’ daughter. In those days, formal legal adoption did not exist in England and Wales. The first adoption act wouldn’t come into force until 1926. Therefore, Emma’s ‘adoption’ of Louisa Kate was an entirely informal arrangement – a social and emotional bond, likely involving de facto guardianship and financial support, but with no legal standing for inheritance under intestacy. However, Emma’s 1864 will explicitly provided for her. After Frances Eleanor Dando’s death, and after all the other specific legacies from the residuary estate were paid, the remaining principal of that fund was to be invested, and the income from this final remainder would go to Louisa Kate Dando for her lifetime. Furthermore, Emma gave Louisa Kate a significant power – the ability to decide, through her own will, who would inherit the principal of that fund after Louisa Kate’s death. This demonstrated Emma’s clear intention to secure Louisa Kate’s financial future and acknowledge her as a true daughter figure.

Why did Emma rewrite her Will?

The answer to this question is uncertain but it may be worth noting that an advertisement for an auction of “Reversionary Interests” to be held on 19th February 1864 appeared in the London Gazette. This notice was for a rather complex sale of future interests in a portfolio of railway stocks, other investments, and real estate. The sale was compelled by a bankruptcy order upon application by the Mortgagee of Mr. Frederick Langworthy Carver who was one of the sons of Emma’s sister, Anne Carver. The value of these interests would only be fully realised upon the “decease of a lady, aged 59 years in April next…” It so happens that Anne Carver fits this description and a share of No. 6 Dean Street in Bristol, where Ann lived, was also included in the portfolio. Could the financial difficulties of Emma’s sister and nephew have been a factor in her decision to change her will in 1864?

Another interesting point is that Louisa Kate Dando’s mother had died in March 1863. Perhaps it was a few months after this that Louisa Kate became Emma’s ward (incidentally in 1877, Louisa Kate was described as Frances’ adopted daughter). Maybe it was for this reason that Emma and Frances wanted to alter their wills.

AI Generated image depicting Emma Dando burning her 1864 Will

AI Generated image depicting Emma Dando burning her 1864 Will

However, in late February or early March 1867, Emma deliberately burned the 1864 will, reportedly intending to revive the terms of her earlier 1863 will. We have no knowledge of why she did this. Apparently, she believed this act would bring the previous will back into effect. However, in the eyes of the law, it wasn’t that simple.

Dando and Others v. Dando, Feaston and Others

Emma’s actions led to a court case entitled “Dando and Others v. Dando, Feaston and Others”. The plaintiffs, who sought to prove the last will and testament of Emma Dando, included her brother Charles Tidmarsh Dando, her sister Frances Eleanor Dando and George Thomas (who were also named as executors in the 1864 will). The defendants were her eldest brother, Joseph Dando (described as the “heir-at-law”), and two sisters, Harriet Feaston and Anne Carver. The defendants did not appear in court.

The case hinged on a legal principle called “dependent relative revocation.” In short, if someone destroys a newer will thinking an older one will automatically replace it, but the old will isn’t legally restored, then the newer will might still stand. And that’s exactly what happened.

The court accepted a draft version of the 1864 will, held by her solicitor, and ruled in its favour. This decision meant the earlier 1863 mutual will was void and that Frances would not inherit everything outright. The will (via its draft) was proved at the Principal Registry on 13th September 1869, “being granted under certain Limitations”, and the estate was valued under £8000.

It could have been worse for Frances had the 1864 will also been declared invalid because Emma Dando would have been considered to have died “intestate” (without a valid will). Therefore, it was likely that her real estate would have primarily gone to the eldest male heir, which in this case was Joseph Dando, as the “heir-at-law”. The sisters would likely have received no share of this under intestacy. The rules for personal property were generally more equitable. Emma’s personal property would probably have been divided equally amongst her closest relatives, in this case her siblings, as she had left no surviving spouse or children. In addition, if Emma’s will had failed, Louisa Kate Dando would have received nothing from Emma’s estate.

So what became of the main characters?

Frances Eleanor Dando married Rev. Richard Perry Clarke in 1870 at the age of 54. She died in 1901, having outlived her husband and all of her siblings. Her estate was initially valued at £19737 18s 10d but, almost seven months later, it went to probate again and was valued at £13375 12s 4d.

One of Frances’ executors was Edward Tozer, who’d married Louisa Kate Dando in 1877. Louisa Kate was 68 when she died in 1924, having outlived her husband, and she left £1468 18s 3d in her will. Edward had left £40259 2s 1d nearly 18 months earlier.

Charles Tidmarsh Dando died in 1889 and his estate was worth £21235 15s 9d. His second wife, Ann, née Nunneley, passed away in 1906 leaving £3594 19s 5d.

Joseph Dando moved to Ireland some time between 1863 and 1866 and lived there with his sixth wife until he died in 1870. His estate was valued at under £100.

Emma Dando was buried in Arnos Vale Cemetery in Bristol on 19th June 1868 and her name is inscribed on one side of her father’s tomb. The opposite side bears the names of Frances and her husband, Richard.

Memorial Card for Emma Dando

Memorial Card for Emma Dando
(kindly supplied by Antonia Tucker (née Tozer), a distant cousin in Wiltshire, UK.)

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The Shell House In Polperro, Cornwall – Old Photo

The Shell House, Polperro

My Granny standing on the steps of the Shell House, Polperro, Cornwall (click to enlarge)

Probably dating from the 1950’s or 1960’s, this old photograph/slide shows my Granny (Ivy Alice Hibbitt, née Dando) on the steps of the Shell House in Polperro in Cornwall.

The Shell House is one of the most photographed and famous houses in Polperro and is currently a holiday let. The house is 19th century and Grade II listed. Samuel Puckey was a retired naval man, and whilst living in the Shell House, began decorating it in 1937. He used the collection of shells which he’d gathered on his travels and it took him five years to complete.

(From my grandpa’s collection of old slides – see this post for more information.)

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